September 29th, 2008 by admin
Many people feel that you are not good speakers and they are right. Not Many people are born with Effective communication. But this is no Excuse for you to Sit immobile with fear and do nothing about the issue. After attending numerous seminars on Effective communication, I understood that each person actually has an inborn ability to connect with others and it is only a matter of efforts and will. It is a matter of being in the right zone in the right time.
A Lot of Athletes believe that when they get into the field, they enter a new zone or a state of consciousness. A zone where, their ability to watch and respond is at its peak. There is no mumbo jumbo behind this secret. It is only a matter of practice and control. If you find yourself wondering how you can do it, let me help you.
Here are some exercises you can do to connect with your Inner Power of expression so you can communicate with ease..
1. Speak Impromptu:
Stand in front of a mirror and start your Impromptu. Do not care what comes out of your mouth, just keep blabbering. Do not stop to revise or analyze what you are saying. Make sure no one hears you do this as it will only make you conscious of their presence and you may censor out your thinking. This exercise is to help you get into your natural flow. You will know when you get into the flow by observing how you feel inside. It will take time to master this technique so do not expect a one day miracle.
2. Grounding:
Reserve a few minutes everyday to get yourself grounded. Pick a place free from excessive noise. Loosen your whole body. Imagine all the stress just dropping off you like sweat. Imagine and feel a cool blue light from the sky entering your head, traveling all through your body and finally rush deep into Earth through your legs. Imagine and feel a warm Red light rise up from the earth, enter your body through the legs and then finally release into sky via your head. Feel the love and warmth of both the Red and the Blue light flow in your body. Relish this at least for 5 minutes day.
3. Reverse Read:
Take any good book on self help and reverse read for about 15 minutes a day. Reading in reverse means, you should start from the bottom right corner and read from right to left.
Practice these exercises at least 10 minutes a day and you will be well on your way to harness Excellent Communication.. Once you begin getting into the zone, notice how you feel. Pay special attention to how your body and mind responds. Once you begin getting into the zone regularly, you can get into the zone at any time and any place by just willing to be in that state. Check out other cool tips and techniques that you can get hold of when you get my 3 Steps to Success. .
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September 24th, 2008 by admin
Few things create the level of bonding and healing for a family as a Grand Canyon hike down to the Colorado River and back out. There are three reasons why it is so effective, and it’s OK if you don’t have the physical fitness to do it, or if you have small kids – I have some solutions for you!
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First, the reasons why a hiking trip into the Grand Canyon is so beneficial for families. The primary reason is that the Grand Canyon is an incredibly special place: a canyon eroded by hundreds of millions of years of running water and blowing wind. It’s literally a 4000 foot deep chasm sliced down the middle of a huge plateau with a wild and incredibly scenic river thundering through the bottom of it. Desert flowers, wildlife, waterfalls, springs, rapids, and views that astound even the most cynical of people define a Canyon experience completely. It’s very difficult to not look out at the Canyon from the rim after spending 3 or 4 days in the bottom and not feel total gratitude for being alive in that moment. And that gratitude is the life blood of family relationships.
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Second, small groups of people living in the wilderness is the basic environment that human beings evolved for the vast majority of the past 70,000 years. It feels correct, and it creates the space for emotions and more difficult feelings to be worked with openly. In other words, it opens up communication channels.
Third, hiking the Canyon is an achievement. Families, like any other teams, are happier when they are winning and are less happy when they are not winning. A hike into the Canyon is an achievement for the family. It isn’t easy, it is challenging, and that’s one of the reasons it’s so effective.
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If you aren’t physically fit enough to do a Grand Canyon hike, then I’ve got some solutions. First, you may be in shape enough to hike without a pack, and if you are, then there are mule services to carry your gear down and back up, so you don’t have to do it. The mules are also a great solution for families with young children. Another solution is to book the trip several months out and start training – if you aren’t in shape for it, then get into shape and make it a mechanism for being healthier. If neither of those solutions will work, then another option is to do a Grand Canyon rafting trip with day hikes from the bottom.
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September 24th, 2008 by admin
The power of rapport-building is often used by therapists and is commonly known as conversational hypnosis. Often the results obtained from this approach are preferable to traditional treatments and in recent years, this strategy has become popular with people looking for ways to get ahead and become successful.
Commonly Used As Therapy
In a clinical setting, conversational methods are intended to get the patient thinking and talking about their situation in a comfortable, safe setting. By creating casual interaction with the patient, the therapist can begin to build rapport and trust. By encouraging active engagement in the discussion, the therapist will often guide the patient to draw their own conclusions that will lead to healing or finding a solution to the problem being treated.
Interestingly, when a person comes up with their own answers through a thoughtful process like this one, their decision is more powerful since it is their own. The therapist didn’t just listen to the problem and tell them what to do. But rather, the patient was skillfully guide to the answer and believed it was their own idea and became committed to the solution. Don’t fail to realize how powerful this is.
How To Use Conversational Hypnosis To Your Advantage
How successful could you be if you had the skills to talk to someone and convince them to believe the point you were making - without them even knowing you had a point?
For example, if you are in sales you may have used this technique with some success. You get your lead talking and you try to persuade them that they want whatever it is you’re selling. If you think back on successful sales meetings, you may notice that some clients just seemed to sell themselves. Whether you knew it or not, you may have used some of these conversational techniques. Imagine if you knew all the tactics and could make this happen on command?
Others choose to use these strategies with getting dates. Wouldn’t it be better to build a relationship with someone who realized on their own that you were the hottest thing around rather than you telling them it was so? When a person decides something on their own it has more power than if someone else tells them an opinion. By the art and skill of conversational hypnosis, you can convince someone to draw the conclusion you want them to and they’ll believe it was their idea all along.
Isn’t it time things started going your way? You can start learning conversational hypnosis today and start using techniques immediately that can make positive changes a reality for you.
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September 7th, 2008 by admin
This video explains what the 3 main forms of communication are, and gives greater understanding into recognizing the forms and how to effectively respond to each form.
Understanding the forms of communication will help you to recognize inappropriate froms of communication and then you can develop assertiveness communication skills and strategies to respond with unacceptable communication.
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